A few weeks ago I was thinking about getting a haircut and wanting to do something different with my hair for the summer time and my upcoming trip. The very next day I received a DM on Instagram from an account that I had been following for a year…

The account is called “vibewithlove” and is run by a beautiful girl named Julia. Julia does hair, makeup, eyebrows, microblading, and more. I started following Julia’s account last summer when I was looking for a makeup artist for my cousin’s wedding. I stumbled across Julia’s account and although she was already booked up for the wedding I decided to follow her anyways…

I followed her because I loved her Instagram stories about the law of attraction, manifesting, and spirituality. Her page is great and I definitely recommend checking her out!

So the day after I was thinking of getting a haircut I woke up to her message about offering me an “intentional” haircut. I had never heard of an “intentional” haircut before but I asked her for more information…

So what is an “intentional” haircut? (according to @vibewithlove)

Well, It’s just like having a regular haircut, except you add a little spirituality to it. So first, you should understand that intentions are the thoughts you create about something, and also the commitment you have in carrying out an action in the future.

An “intentional” haircut re-wires your energetic field and the emotional vibration you send out (the energy you give off). Refreshing your ends (energetic antennas), releasing old and stagnant energy that doesn’t serve you anymore, and refreshing the energy you mindfully choose to attract and send out.

My experience getting an “intentional” haircut:

While Julia was cutting & colouring my hair she was asking me questions to think about such as what do I want to attract in my life, what are my biggest goals right now, what do I want to let go of, and so on. I felt like I was meditating while I was getting my hair cut! And as someone who meditates every morning, this experience was truly surreal to me…

Typically when I get an “ordinary” haircut, I don’t give it much thought. I treat it as a normal errand that has to be done. My experience getting an “intentional” haircut was very different. During the whole process of cutting my hair, I was thinking… not of what I’m going to eat for dinner… but thinking about my life.

I was thinking about what was causing me to feel anxious lately, how my body felt, what I wanted to attract in my life, and what memories I wanted to let go of.

Instead of checking an errand off of my to-do list I instead had a spiritual experience, all while getting my haircut! When Julia cut my hair I felt a weight being lifted off of my shoulders and I felt refreshed when I looked in the mirror after.

I loved that such a normal errand could be turned into such a magical experience so I thank Julia for introducing me to “intentional” haircuts! Going forward, I will try to put intention into everything I do.


If you live in the GTA then I definitely recommend checking out Julia’s website for her many beauty services. She has an amazing, authentic, and genuine vibe and I can’t wait to continue to book with her in the future!

Julia’s Website: http://www.vibewithlove.com/

Julia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vibewithlove/

Thank you for reading!



This past Sunday I had the pleasure of visiting the STC Flower MRKT Pop-Up Event which is located in the Scarborough Town Centre mall and is focused on mothers day! The market is open from May 4-13 and it was absolutely beautiful!


Credit @abhavphotography

The open-concept market featured tons of local artisans, floral-focused designers, and artists. There were so many great mothers day gift ideas and I wanted them all! (for my mom and for me).



Credit @abhavphotography

They also had a fresh flower field (with real flowers +grass!!!), a patio swing, and a floral origami workshop space where you can make a heart shaped gift for your mom.


Credit @abhavphotography

The event was definitely worth checking out! If you want to win a $500 STC gift card, a floral bouquet, and a gift set then enter by sharing a photo using #STCFlowerMRKT and follow @shopSTC on Instagram!

Happy mothers day to all the beautiful moms out there!





How To Be Grateful & Happier

This is the notebook that I created to remind myself to always see the glass (or wine glass) as half full. For sale on Amazon & Etsy.

I honestly think that the key to happiness is gratitude. Being grateful for all that you have and living in the present moment. If I’m ever feeling down or anxious I like to focus on what I am grateful for at that very moment.

For a few years now I have been waking up and naming or writing down at least 5 things that I am grateful for. This could range from my good night’s sleep to the morning coffee that I am about to enjoy. Every night before I go to bed I try to also think of things that I am grateful for that happened in my day. The productive day I had, seeing my friends, the delicious dinner I ate, and so on.

This has truly changed my life.

I changed my focus from looking at what I “lack” to what I have and when you do this daily you really realize how much you have to be thankful for. Instead of being envious of other peoples lives, take a look at yours! Yes, you might not have your dream job, home, body but what do you have?

Things to be grateful for:

  • That you are able to see, taste, smell, walk, hear, read, and write
  • Your job & make money
  • That you have family, friends, or significant others
  • Your home, clothing, and fresh drinking water
  • That you are constantly learning & growing everyday
  • Listening to music you love
  • That you are striving for your goals and dreams
  • The upcoming trip you are going on
  • Your phone, computer, tv, and the internet
  • The food and drinks that you had today or will be having later
  • Coffee, Wine, Pizza
  • The opportunity to make a change in your life
  • Your pets
  • The power of meditation & yoga
  • Reading a good book
  • That tomorrow is a fresh start
  • Owning a car
  • The beauty of nature
  • Your good health & your families
  • The country you live in
  • Taking a hot shower
  • Fresh bed sheets
  • To be alive!!!

These are just a couple of things that you can be grateful for every day. Make it your goal to start focusing on at least 5 things that you are grateful for every day and see how it changes your happiness levels.

I am grateful that you are reading this post. Have a beautiful day!





Urban Photography by Henry Hwu

Urban Photography by Henry Hwu

Recently I have spent time filtering through my Instagram list and making sure that I am only following accounts that inspire & motivate me. I think that is what social media should be used for… inspiration, motivation, and empowerment. If you follow accounts that make you feel crappy about yourself then just hit the unfollow button because life’s too short! Plus, there are lots of amazing accounts that you could be following instead…

So today I wanted to spread the love by sharing with you 5 of my favourite Toronto bloggers that inspire me daily!

1. @lapetitenoob

I love Joelle’s gorgeous pink theme & her amazing outfits. Her pictures inspire me to want to explore more of Toronto and she is just adorable! She also has a youtube channel that is all about fashion, beauty, taking pictures and more!

2. @thisrenegadelove

Lauren’s Instagram & blog is all about developing your own personal brand and killing it online! I love how authentic her pictures and captions are; she truly motivates me. She is also great at replying to comments and going on Instagram live weekly!

3. @stephsterjovski

Stephanie is a successful blogger that lives in Toronto. She posts gorgeous travel and outfit pictures every day. Her Instagram feed is flawless (and she is currently in Italy so go check out her Instagram stories!). Why wouldn’t you want to follow her?

4. @happygreylucky

I met this beautiful mama at an event last year and I am telling you that you need to check out her page now! Sina posts the most creative family pictures and amazing informative blog posts. I don’t know how she does it all but she will definitely inspire you like she inspires me!

5. @catforsley

Cat is a lifestyle and beauty blogger with the biggest heart. I love watching her Instagram stories every day and I love the way that she spreads love to everyone, she is truly a sweetheart. She’s not only a mom but she is also a talented singer, go check out her page!

Those are 5 of the amazing Toronto bloggers that inspire & motivate me daily. Who inspires you?

Thanks for reading!




10 Things You Probably Don’t Know About Me

Hi Everyone! For today’s post, I thought I would get a little bit more personal and share 10 things that you probably don’t know about me. Whether you stumbled across my blog, instagram account, or youtube channel, welcome!

My name is Melissa and I am known as “canyoucarrymybags” on social media. I created my youtube channel 6 years ago but I only started posted consistently thee last year and a half. I spend a lot of time posting instagram pictures, daily instagram stories, and I also have a twitter and pinterest page. All of my links can be found on my blog!

Lets get started…

10 Things You Probably Don’t Know About Me

  1. I am 24 years old. My birthday is January 11, 1994.
  2. I am just under 5’6 feet tall.
  3. I can eat pizza every single day and I would never get sick of it.
  4. I am a wine lover. I am usually seen drinking red wine but in the summer I enjoy a glass of Chardonnay. I am currently reading “Wine Folly” to learn more about wine. I plan on visiting wineries all around the world!
  5. I am half Italian and half greek. My dad’s family is from Abruzzo, Italy and my moms family is from the Northern part of Greece.
  6. I have two siblings. My sister is 26 years old and recently got married. My brother is 19 years and is studying at University.
  7. I graduated with a Business degree from a University in Ontario, with a major in Economics.
  8. I work from home. I am a freelance social media manager and full-time blogger.
  9. I love the topic of self-improvement and the law of attraction. I enjoy reading books and making videos on these two topics.
  10. I currently live outside of Toronto but plan on moving there soon!

Those are 10 things that you probably didn’t know about me! I hope that you enjoyed this post and let me know one fact about you.